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Christine's avatar

Wow Madeleine that's so fabulous congratulations lovely 🤗

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Madelleine Müller (she/her)'s avatar

Thank you!

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Amber Horrox's avatar

Album downloaded! What a great accompaniment to my day(s) - thank you 🙏

I love hearing your voice - whether by song or by written word💜

Was just speaking to my friend specifically about the grieving process of friends who are no longer. In her case, she didn’t ever feel like she fit in with them anyway. And yet, there is still loss.

Over recent years, I’ve lost so many of my own. I’ve always over given and said yes to everything so losing friends hasn’t been a part of my life until chronic illness.

In most cases, i let them go with as much love as possible. Sending love and great wishes for their lives and onwards journeys.

Though One friend - did she fall out with me? Was i not supportive enough? Is she slagging me off? So many unanswered questions. I still send love to her too. And allow myself to grieve friendships now in a way I never have before.

My latest post (a podcast on living with purpose and meaning) tucks into those friendships, those meetings that have happened that would never have been, were it not for chronic illness.

Something I have only become more aware of in meeting migraine patients on line to share their stories. It comes up in our conversation a lot (outside of the recording).

So it is true, for every ending, there is a new beginning 💚🤎

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Madelleine Müller (she/her)'s avatar

Yay! Thank you so much 🩷💙🥰 And yes, oh those friends. I had two girlfriends who directly left when I got ill, they couldn’t handle it. It’s rough.

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